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EubieCal's avatar

Of course, no one can advise you what to do. All anyone can offer is perspective from a different location.

On the one hand, the experiences of the past year have probably informed your inner world in ways you simply cannot yet appreciate. Art is about experience and perception, both of which have been altered for you.

On the other hand, steady work with people you enjoy is also about experience and perception, just along a different path. And yes, the work may once again slow your energies and motivations in your aspirations. But the calm and assurance that accompanies steady income is sustaining to both body and dreams.

I entered commercial photography and worked up, largely loving the experience. I did catalog, B2B, and some advertising work in a couple local studios. I thought to shape my path and success more by opening my own studio. Heady times. I learned running a business and making photos were so very different skill sets. Upon facing renewal on a lease for my space, my partner and I had one of those life-changing convos, and suddenly I was on a new path: being the at-home parent for our child hoping to pursue my photography as art.

I became very absorbed in raising our child and supporting my partner as she worked hard to successfully grow her business. Priceless experience. But the photography came to serve watching our child grow while my own personal photographic growth slowed.

Now, decades on, I am picking back up on the artistic growth that slowed and finding new footing. It is exciting because it has always lived in me - and lives still.

There is no substitute for the hours of work and experience that must be put in to grow artistically. But, too, every experience you choose is about growth. And while it is trite, the advice that no path you choose will be the wrong one is valid. If your love of creating images is important to you, it will live on, and its expression will emerge when appropriate.

Whether doing odd jobs and cobbling together the resources to develop your art or doing photography for others and making the effort to keep feeding your artistic vision (and art network) whenever possible, you’ll be fine.

Have one of those honest convos with your partner and together figure out which way offers you both the deepest expressions of love, experience, and perception.

For what it’s worth . . .

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Jason Phang's avatar

Thanks for sharing. All the best for your decision making journey.

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